Welcome to ManDecoder.com, the site that helps women learn to understand and connect with men.  Women who understand what men think, how they act, and what they really want, are empowered to go out and create fulfilling relationships.

My name is Adrienne Mansfield, and I started this website to share what I have learned from years of dating and navigating through my own relationships.

My early dating years were rough, and I found myself attracting the same kinds of relationships year after year.

I was attracting losers, and I was sick of it!

After experiencing a lot of frustration in my love life, I started on a path of self-discovery.

I spent thousands of dollars on relationship coaching, counseling, books, CDs, you name it.  I was determined to turn my life around.

The biggest turning point for me was realizing that all of the problems I was experiencing in my relationships with men could all be traced back to me and how I felt about myself.

I was not treating myself like the prize that I was, so how could I expect men to treat me that way?

I was constantly looking outside of myself, to the man in my life, for validation. Once I realized that I had to validate myself, my relationships started improving drastically.  Both romantic and otherwise.

After making certain changes on the inside, I started attracting men who were completely different from the men I had dated before.  I started to realize what qualities actually attract men and make them want to commit.

I will be sharing my own personal insights on this site, as well as pointing you to news and other sources of information I have found helpful.

My goal is to empower as many women as possible and help them learn how to understand and connect with men so they can create the relationships they desire.